好多要学的

在感情中，原来真的好多东西要学~~~
在两个不同的文化里，更难！

耶稣帮助我们~~~~~~~~~~~

愛？不愛？-男生女生的差異

在一個部落格看到的。覺得很特別就po上來了^^

女生不懂，当女生在为男生不打电话生气时，男生可能在干着又苦又累的工作。

女生不懂，当男生为女生披上他自己的衣服是，他也是如坠冰 窖。

女生不懂，当女生一句话让男生沉默的时候，男生不是生气，而是深深的受伤。

女生不懂，当看到男生一只快乐 时，不是男生没有痛苦，而是全部埋在心底。

女生不懂，当女生为男生付出的时候，男生不是看不见，而是不善于表达。

女 生不懂，当男生挑剔女生不好的时候，在别人面前却夸的如天仙一般。

女生不懂，当男生转身的时候，女生看不到男生眼底的悲伤和心理的泪 和血。

女生不懂，当男生失意的时候，永远是孤独的喝着酒。

女生不懂，当男生在坚强的外表下，有时候是一颗异常脆 弱的心。

女生不懂，当男生悲伤的时候，永远不会骂女生，是因为男生还深深的爱着她。

女生不懂，当女生痛苦的时 候，男生的心痛永远不会比女生少。

女生不懂，当男生离开的时候，并不代表他不爱她，而是不想浪费她的青春和感情。

女 生不懂，当男生选择成为过客的时候，男生的心中永远刻着女生的名字。

女生不懂，当男生装傻的时候，不是忘记，而是在想如何给女生一个 惊喜。

女生不懂，当男生生气的时候，不是因为不能承受女生的无理取闹，而是因为被女生的话深深地伤害。


如果一个 男生真的爱一个女生，他的许多都是女生不懂得，男生对女生的尊重和爱也不会比女生付出的少，因为男生承受的东西本就很多，男生的心不会比女生坚强，因为女 生可以发泄，而男生却只能压在心底。很多时候不要太责怪一个男生。因为他爱的同样甚至更深。只不过被深深的藏起。

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男生永远不懂，为什么女生会那么的依赖你，那是因为她把你当做她的唯一，为什么女生在你不给她打电话的时候会很生气，因为她想要听到你的声音，感觉你的疼爱。

男生永远不懂，女生为什么会爱生气，因为她只是想要你来哄她，回味你们之间的温存。

男生永远不懂，女生怎么那么爱吃醋，那是因为她爱你，而容不下一点你给其他女生的任何一点温柔。

男生永远不懂，为什么女生爱唠叨让你少抽烟，少喝酒，女生也知道那不可能，但是她担心你的身体。

男生永远不懂，女生怎么那么多的眼泪，那是因为她将所有的委屈都化做泪水，而把所有的温柔都留给你。

男生永远不懂，女生愿意为你东奔西跑、为你做很多事，只是因为爱你，而并不是为了显示自己比你强。

男生永远不懂，女生会在很晚的时候打电话给你，不是不信任你，只是突然很想你，想听听你的声音。

男生永远不懂，女生会想要知道你的一切，想为你分担事情，那是因为她只想要自己是你最亲密的人。

男生永远不懂，当分手来到时，女生那坚强的语言后面是多么伤的伤痛！

男生永远不懂，分手后女生不是不痛，而是痛到连看到你就会无法自拔！

男生永远不懂，女生的爱是那么深。一旦爱上就不能自已。隐瞒的那么深，不要带给你困扰！而自己哭泣！

男生永远不懂，女生的爱！女生的爱脆弱又坚强，不要**感情。女孩狠起心来是不要命的。

男生永远不懂,当你说不爱她了。她不会缠着你。只要你快乐，她愿意放开你。

男生永远不懂，女生在分手后那笑的背后有了多少的悲痛！


如果爱，请深深的爱她，如果不爱，请不要享受她的独爱。 不要挥霍爱情，爱情挥霍完了，就会挥霍了她的生命。

Tired but happy

I've started working for a week now, and I love that place, love the team, and love the children!!
The staff are all very nice to me, and teach me a lot of new things. They also make sure that I'm alright at work, and yeah, everything is good!

Job hunting (2)

So, I went to the interview for the one that I felt uncomfortable, and God closed the door! haha! They said they would want an experienced teacher because their centre is fairly new and they only have one with experienced at the moment. So, yey! God close the door! ^^
It's good that they gave me the result of the discussion the very next day, while I am actively searching for job on the internet. I came across one that is a very big company that has over 100 centres in New Zealand. I have been considering to go into big company for a very long time.So decided to give it a go.Applied in writing that day, and got the phone call the next day, and interview the next day after.

During the interview, it was only the HR manager that interviewed me, and she referred me to a centre where she think would be the best for me, but she said that it's not up to her to make the decision; it is the centre's manager and me. So yeah, I went to see the centre, and have a chat with the centre manager, and while chatting, we just clicked because of something in common interest that we share. And yeah, straightaway I rang the HR manager and told her that I like the place and would like to join the team.

So, the HR manager has to ring the referees of mine, she has to at least get 2 out of the 3 references. But after ringing the 1st one, she told me she couldn't get hold of the second one whom is having holiday at the beach. And she told me to wait until next week to give me the final outcome. And then within the next few minutes, the HR manager rang back and said, the Business manager told her to 'just give me the job'. In my heart I'm like "Whoa!!! Praise God!!" This is indeed a miracle to me! Got a job in just that one day!!!! haha!

Job hunting (1)

I have been looking for jobs and interviewing since January, but they all asked me to wait, for the reasons that it's New Year period, and then I have to wait for them to get to the end of interviews.

I am not the person of patient, I keep looking out for posts that are advertised in Education Gazette (a magazine that is published by the Ministry of Education), and the outcomes are:

-there's one that I really like in Paraparaumu (Kapiti Coast), which is a town near Wellington, but Mum was like why do you have to go so far to work when you can easily find jobs in Hamilton.

-another one that I hoped to get in, but they rejected me to go for the interview = ="!!!

-some centres I did went to interview, and got rejected because the amount of people that applied is just overwhelming

-some I couldn't wait because they are new centres, and only open in March/April.

-Then, another one is a centre that I don't really feel comfortable. I went to look at the centre, but then I felt it's all good. And I told the manager that I would want to have a formal interview. It's only when I had the chance to work as a reliever that I felt a bit uncomfortable, but when I asked my friends if there's any case of people pulling out of interview, they all marah (scold) me. Then, I can only pray to God and said, I really don't like it, can you please don't let them employ me... I think no one would make that kind of prayer to ask God to close the door.

But during this period of waiting time, Revelation 3:7-8

To the angel of the church in Philadelphia write: These are the words of him who is holy and true, who holds the key of David. What he opens no one can shut, and what he shuts no one can open. I know your deeds. See, I have placed before you an open door that no one can shut. I know that you have little strength, yet you have kept my word and have not denied my name.

These two verses gave me an endorsement that everything we do, everything we have and going to have; or everywhere we go is endorse by God. It's just amazing that you know when you are a child of God, you are protected, and guarded by Him. I don't know how other people feel when they are rejected for a job especially during this time of the economy downturn, but I felt that joy keep flowing inside of me when I'm rejected. When I texted other people and told them I'm rejected, they were all asking if I'm alright, and I said yes, perfectly alright because God holds the pass to whatever company that I'm going into.

Learn to Wait

A few nights ago, as I was praying for myself and praying for God's confirmation to come through. I told God that I donno how should I choose: the easier way, or the way that seems too impossible for it to happen unless He Himself intervenes in it.
Then, I couldn't sleep, so I got up and turned on the Shine TV which was "Devotion Time" with Pastor Ashley and Jane ..........(forgot the surname). Anyway, it was early morning. And their sharing really talk to me, and reminded me that God did once spoke to me in my practicum.

Last year, I was studying towards a degree of Graduate Diploma in Teaching (Early Childhood Education), so I had 3 practicums in a year. While I was at the final practicum, I was in a big class of 30s over 2s children (age from 2-5). There was one that will just throw a tantrum by crying, and lying on the floor kicking when he doesn't get what he wants. One day, the tantrum occurred when he needed to wait for his turn to play with the toys, and he just bursted into tears and cried his lungs out, and then throw himself on the floor and lied there crying. Then the Holy Spirit reminded me: you are just like him over that matter.

I'm like, all shocked, coz it's just like seeing an image mirror before God. When He told me to wait patiently and trust Him, I couldn't do it, and would just start to play tantrums before God. Although He loves us very much, He wouldn't buy in to our tantrums because He knows that we need to learn to wait, as we grow older spiritually. If, we give in to the child who played tantrums everytime, then we are not helping him, but we are spoiling that child to the extent that he won't know how to wait; he will only think of himself and become a selfish person. The worst case that I can think of when he grows up is probably he would sought the worst ways to satisfy his own needs if he is not given the chance to learn to wait.

Waiting is difficult. I admit I'm not a patient person. I couldn't sit still and just wait for an answer to drop down from above. But He's reminding me that there's a greater things need to be done in the Kingdom of God than my own personal problem. So yeah, I know He won't buy in...but He has the best timing. It may be late for me, but it will be in time from His perspective.

Please pray for my heart to be still and be silent in front of Him. =)

Interviews

This week has been all about interviews and looking at Early Childhood centres that I'm interested in.
So, hopefully God will open the door that He wants me to go to, and use me as a vessel in the area.
Although I have two centres in mind, but I'll leave all the decisions to Him because He's the one that will open the door that no one can shut!

Happy 2010!!

Happy New Year everyone!

I hope this year would be a great one to everyone and that all bondages of the past

will be breakfree by God.

Yesterday, I spent a quiet morning in my bedroom writing my New Year resolution, hopefully it will all be fulfilled this year!!

*hugs and kisses*